Want To No.3: Leave a List Lying in Limbo
Maybe it's time for another meeting of the "Blog Cos You Want To" Club? How's the blogging been going for you in January? It's been busy round here, and I've been finding myself with a little less time than usual for thinking about what I'd like to post. Usually I enjoy flying by the seat of my pants - wake up, do something, write about it - but it doesn't always work. Yesterday something came up, I had to go to it, I didn't have time to write. So, with that in mind, I'd like to suggest a bit of thinking ahead.
I know lots of you do plan, and there are plenty of very pretty, printable blog planners out there to help: but there's planning, and there's actually opening up that new post window and putting it all together. Something non-seasonal, something timeless, something just sitting there, ready to go when you need it. Leave a list lying in limbo.
Some years ago now, when I started blogging, there was a trend for posting "bucket lists" or wish lists. I had a go at writing my own - 49 Things, I called it. Not really a bucket list, more a "rite of passage" note: not things I desperately wanted to achieve, more an everyone-has-to-think-about-doing-that-once-in-a-lifetime. I'm going to revisit that list and post it here so that you can make it the starting point for a list of your own. Go on - open up a new post, paste this is, and then take a few minutes to tailor it to your own life. Pick and choose what you want from it, add some ideas of your own, then highlight the ones you have done and - here's the thing - do not publish it this week! Or next week! (unless you really have to). keep it for half term, or when you have the flu, or any other time when you need something fast. Save it up. Just don't post it yet. Promise?
Here it is, then...
49 Things: My Life in a List
I have (or have not - yet)
- Kept a friend for more than twenty years
- Made my own jam (lots of it, in a Little House kind of way)
- Sewn a quilt
- Learned how to tap dance
- Ridden on a tandem
- Walked up the outside of a volcano
- Found or sent a message in a bottle
- Crossed the equator
- Slept in the open air
- Appeared on Live TV
- Been locked in overnight - or long enough at least for it to start getting scary
- Seen the Terracotta Army in China
- Admired the Crown Jewels in London
- Looked at Paris from the heights of the Eiffel Tower
- Caught a glimpse of the Northern Lights
- Visited a penpal
- Tracked down a long lost relative or friend through the internet
- Set my heart on something and worked tirelessly to achieve it
- Driven from one end of my country to the other
- Flown in a hot air balloon
- Built my own house
- Found a beautiful fossil to take home and keep
- Gone to a school reunion and enjoyed it
- Met an idol
- Been photographed with someone famous
- Held a stranger's hand just because they needed me
- Had a handsome man buy me champagne
- Partied through til breakfast
- Won a bet
- Found something valuable and make sure it is returned to its rightful owner
- Sold something I made myself
- Had an interesting part of my body pierced (or maybe a tattoo?)
- Dyed my hair a crazy colour
- Gone out on the town in an outfit I've made entirely myself
- Spent far too much money on something I've never worn
- Spotted a ghost
- Discovered a peacock feather lying on the grass and take it home
- Been recognised for some kind of community service
- Judged a competition
- Won a competition
- Started a Mexican Wave
- Taken part in some kind of endurance event
- Scored an own goal, figuratively or otherwise
- Discovered disappointment, but found a way out of it
- Got something published
- Seen my name in lights
- Taken up something new and discovered that I'm good at it
- Asked for my money back
- Been treated as an emergency
There you go. Copy and paste it - just don't post it. Yet!
WHY WILL THIS WORK? Well, obviously, to start with you have the satisfaction of knowing you have a post in reserve. That gives you more time to plan something else. But there's more to it than that. The big, clever bloggers talk about the "takeway" - what you give your readers, what they get from reading one of your posts. If you post a quick list, your readers can post it too. You'll have given them something they can use themselves. They might even thank you for it! And there's more - every time you post something like this, with your answers, you reveal a little bit of yourself. And that's what we all want to see. We read because we want to know about the person behind the posts: why not tell everyone if you have climbed a volcano? You never know what conversation it might start...
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